Am I Dating Too Much?

I know lately I have posted a lot of things pertaining to relationships and what I may be going through right now in my life but one thing that stood out the most is my current “dating” situation. I really don’t know if I would call it a situation but this has been the most I have dated in my entire twenty-seven years of living. I am not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing to admit to.  

Let me just be honest, in the past month I have been on at least 3-4 dates and not one of these dates turned into a second date and that’s pretty much by choice [by the end of the night I have already come to the conclusion that I have no feelings or connection with the person I just shared a meal + small talk with and a couple of laughs, which sucks but happens more often that I would like to say]. 

The more I go out on these date the more I feel as though maybe I am searching for something that I should not be looking for [everything should come natural and not forced] so that has put me back into the space I was in before, happy being single. One thing that I can admit to is that I have been the happiest I have ever been in the last two years being single, it gave me the time and drive to realize what it is I want out of life in more ways than one. 

Question is was I dating too much? Maybe or maybe not, who’s to say? I just know when that right person comes along for me I will not have to question it, search for it, or even second-guess it I will know.

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